When you find yourself angry or irritated with somebody.
Look at yourself first.
Do not ask, what is wrong with this person.
Instead ask, what does this irritation tell me about myself?
The cause of this irritation is not in this person, but in you.
Understand that there is a real possibility that this person's "defects" annoy you because you have them yourself.
When you don't like something in someone most probably because you have them.
You have repressed these feelings, and are projecting them onto the other person.
Once you see this for what it really is, you can now show gratitude.
For this person's annoyance has now led to self-discovery.
I appreciate you taking the time!
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