INTERESTING GYAN

  The Way You Look At Life Has A Lot To Do With The Way You See Yourself. Your outlook on life is a direct reflection of how much you like yourself. Regardless of where you have been or where you are going, your outlook on life can change for the better if you allow it to. Perspective + Being in Control of Your Happiness – the little things that don’t matter = a more positive human being, both inside and out. Perspective Perspective separates the winners from the losers – not just in sport but in life itself. People like this obsess over the little things that eventually take over their lives. Letting Go Of The Little Things We keep ourselves busy with little things because we can handle them. But if our lives are built around these things, then we don’t allow ourselves time with the big things; we give ourselves no time for the most important questions life asks us You Are In Control Of Your Own Happiness Repeat after me: I am in control of my own happiness. I am in control...

  Who you choose to marry is the biggest decision of your life, make sure it's done with the focus, seriousness and due diligence it deserves. If you get it wrong it will destroy you for years, perhaps your entire life. What kind of family and children you will have. I have married 12 years ago. Before marriage, my Brother advised that Never marry with Teacher or Daughter of teacher Advocate or a Daughter of Advocate, Policewomen or Daughter of Police person. Why.... Marrying a modern woman (feminist) = all the responsibility, no authority (slavery) + high chance of divorce and financial loss. Marriage is a privilege, not a right. Marry traditional women. Do not fuck this up. "Give the modern woman the husband she deserves - none." Women will not understand this because marriage is not a risk for women. I n the event of a divorce, women get a bounty. The man goes to jail and has half his stuff and his children taken away. And possibly years of your life with fake cas...

  nobody is mediocre ..just on a different stage in evolution journey PROCASTINATION Lofty ambitions, poor execution Only complaints no solutions!! 1. Professionalism 2. Comfort Zone Meetings. Lots of meetings. No confidence is product / service Their decisions and actions tend to be restricted by internal judgment. Work in progress status, everyday. Nothing gets released. More interested in planning about what to do after work during work hours . Choosing Bitching , politics over work ethics . So what if someone is a top performer and the company itself is mediocre or not treating the person properly. Isn’t he/she in this situation going to speak the same? Saying 'the company sucks, I'm better than this, I want to quit' but saying this for more than a year. Talking more about unnecessary things during breaks than ideas and technology. Pessimism. General negative attitude towards world and people around. Lack of energy, enthusiasm and drive. These are personal observati...

  Every top performer I know of, Has a coach in the areas they're weakest at. Getting yourself a personal coach in the area of weakness can be the best investment you will ever make. Once you realise you need help and do not need to hide your weekness and struggle. This is where Growth happen. One of the many reason why paying for knowledge no longer require a second thought. The hardest part for most people is ditching the ego and identifying thier weak areas. Only then can you be the perfect candidate for coaching. I Like a word said by a trainer " I would remind people that even Usain Bolt and LeBron James have trainers. There is always something beyond our own line of sight. One of the most hardest thing is admitting having weaknesses in the first place. When the student is ready, the teacher will appear.

  1. Pattern recognition Figuring out “what things have in common” Our brains are pattern recognition machines. We constantly analyze the similarities between people, events, and scenarios to make decisions. Pattern recognition is how we deduce danger. It's also how we prosper. 1a. Pattern recognition Example exercise: Say your son loves baseball. Ask: what do all the great hitters have in common? What do they all do the same? What do they do differently? When does a manager usually come out to the pitcher’s mound? Why do you think that is? 2. Reverse engineering Figuring out “what’s required” It’s nearly impossible to create anything if you can’t first picture it in your mind. Effective thinkers begin with the result in mind and work backward to determine what steps they need to take. The whole informs the parts. 2a. Reverse engineering Example exercise: Say you’re building a birdhouse. Before you begin, ask: what will we need to DO to build this birdhouse? What materials...

  1. Your family is the most important business you’ll ever run Successful businesses have a vision. They have a mission and values. You’d never start a business without diligence and intention. And you'd never start without the right partner. Why would your family be different? 2. Truth is the highest virtue Truth is objective. There are laws of nature and rules to life. Success isn't an accident, it's an algorithm. If you prefer a subjective view of truth, eventually you'll be lying to yourself. Seek the truth, speak it always, and guard it fiercely. 3. Take advice selectively Most advice is bad. People give advice freely on subjects they know little about. Or they'll project, telling you what they would have wanted to hear. But occasionally you’ll find someone who truly has what you want. That’s the advice to listen to. 4. Never complain There is nothing more pitiful than a man who complains. When something doesn’t go your way, ask yourself this question: “Do...

The quality of your friends is the quality of your mind. If you look at the people in your circle and you don't get inspired, Then you don't have a circle. You have a cage.” BE SELECTIVE WHO YOU SPEND TIME WITH - You’re the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with Select groups of the right people for whatever you’re into (training, business building, whatever) Look for people who inform and inspire Give give give! Your network defines you, your future, your conversations, your everything. Quality of Network, Quality of your life Quality of People, Quality of life you shall have. Quality of group, Quality of thoughts. In a way, your parents define your personality and your friends define your growth. Find friends who challenge you, inspire you, and motivate you. How do you know if your friends will help you grow? They will teach you things you never knew about the world or even yourself. “It’s usually more important to be in the right room than to ...