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How to deal with REJECTION?

Understand it's part of your life, you can't run from it, people gonna reject you the moment they meet you. CAUSE (why you feel it) You deriving your self worth from what they think about you, their thinking about you is affecting what you think, and your mind is biased it always works to feel you superior to others. WHAT to do  1) Take it as REDIRECTION let go of what they think about you and derive it from your inner self, I am worthy of myself, I don't need others to feel my worth. 2) Stop taking everything personally People don't know what they are doing, they are projecting themselves onto you, everything they do is not about you, they 'DON'T EVEN CARE WHO THE FUCK ARE YOU.' Question - “What kind of people should I have around me?”   Answer,-  “Your circle must have people who inspire you otherwise you don’t have a circle, but a cage.”

29 lessons learn on life and investing along the way

Avoiding $3 coffees won't make you a millionaire 1. Staying with roommates and living like a student for a few years after graduation can Avoid lifestyle creep and use the savings as fuel for your finances "Stop asking $3 questions & start asking $30,000 questions" 2. The point of becoming rich is not to live luxuriously It's to live life on your own terms and conditions and chase your dreams "You now have some FU money. This is when you make things happen" 3. When you start being successful you will get hate even from close friends The reason? Your success acts as a mirror for their failures "You rarely get hate from anyone more successful than you" 4. Focus on what you are good at, not what you like Engineering and analytics were not my passions, but they paid pretty well and allowed me to follow other passions in my free time "Don't follow your passion, follow your talent" 5. Skills pay the bills In-demand and high-pay...

10 "Billionaire Secrets" that will make you Super-Intelligent.

1. Simple > Complex Focus on creating things that are easy to use and understand by everyone. Be it words, products, services, tweets, ideas or concepts. 2. Think in First Principles Boil down things to their most fundamental components. For example, What makes a great book? Chapters > Paragraphs > Sentences > Words Focus on the 'Right Words'. 3. Stick within your "Circle of Competence" What you know <<< What you think you know Focus only on 'what you know' and build on that. 4. Avoid Stupidity Instead of consistently trying to fix problems, avoid them. If you want to remain slim, avoid foods that make you fat. It's that simple. 5. Be Indifferent to Results You can only control your actions not the results. Cry, fret, stress and go crazy. It's still impossible. Work rationally and move on. 6. Ignore First Impressions You're run by emotions. And hundreds of your subconscious assumptions. High price = High quality ...

7-Steps To Become A Better Decision Maker

1. Learn to say “No” One of the best decisions you’ll ever make in life is to start saying “no” more often. People often feel entitled to say yes to tedious demands that they don’t really want to do... Truth is, life is too short to do things you don’t like. Just say “No”! 2. Identify your bad habits Everyone has bad habits, it’s part of being human. The first step to fixing it is first acknowledging it exists. Once you know what you’re up against, then you can find out what’s triggering it. Fix your bad habit at the root of the problem. 3. Always have a plan Having a plan of action is a crucial part to making successful decisions. Without a plan of action, you have no direction. You’re like a chicken running with his head cut-off. Collect info & create a flexible plan. Failing to plan is planning to fail 4. Keep an open mind & remain emotionally detached An open-mind is important for decision making because you need to examine every possibility. Your biggest do...

7 habits that changed my life in less than a year

1/ Respect your sleep Sleep is like a recharge for humans. The moment you start respecting AT LEAST 7h of sleep, your daily life improves dramatically. Your mood, your energy, your mentality, everything is influenced by your sleep. 2/ Drink water Start drinking water as soon as you wake up. You will immediately feel how your body feels better. Whenever you feel tired or feel like snacking, drink water. Most of the time you are just dehydrated. 3/ Practice gratefulness daily Every day, as soon as you wake up, write down 5 things you are grateful for. If you want, do it also before going to sleep. You are setting yourself up to be happier just by spending a few minutes a day. 4/ Make your bed It's a very simple habit but one that has a HUGE influence throughout the day. If you start the day winning, even if it's something as small as making your bed, it will turn into bigger wins. Win the morning, win the day. 5/ Train your muscles Lifting heavy weights. Practice ...

There are basically three ways to destroy someone's image.

1. Attack their competence: Show the audience that your subject doesn't know what they are talking about. Show them your subject's incompetence by pointing out incoherences in their speech. By attacking competence, you point out the lack of legitimacy. 2. Attack their Character: Show the public the antipathic part your subject's character. Highlight their arrogance. Highlight their lack of ethics. Show the audience that what your subject is doing doesn't come from passion, but, from greed. 3. Hit under the Belt:  Show the audience parts of the intimate life of your subject. Everyone has dirt, everyone has had embarassing moments in their private life. Make that public.

6 Reasons why you feel Lost

 1) You were raised in an unhealthy environment. Whether you want to admit it or not, the people who raised you molded you. Their values and their beliefs were pushed on to you.  You had no choice as a child, but now you do. You choose your environment and you choose your life.  2) You have developed low self esteem. Low self esteem is a bad habit you have built over time. You think you are inadequate because that's what you have been told/what you think. Take charge of your life by knowing you are capable, you have potential and you are powerful.  3) You are deeply influenced by the media. The media influencing everything about your life. They make you want to be someone you are not. They make you chase lies. It is important to take a step back, realize who you are and who you want to be. Start becoming that person.  4) You are surrounded by enablers. If your friends/family aren't helping you move forward, they are helping you move backwards. Your network will ...

9 steps to find yourself

1) Prioritize alone time. lone time is very powerful and the first step towards finding yourself again. Solitude separates people from all influences and allows them to fully be themselves and focus on their own thoughts, needs and wants. Find some alone time daily. Focus.  2) Purge your thoughts. Allowing thoughts to come to life via journalism, drawing or talking to others is the easiest way to rationalize them. Take time daily to focus on thoughts, so identifying your core needs can become possible. Focus more on understanding your thoughts.  3) Focus on your top 5 core needs. Everyone has wants and desires, but needs are different. What do you need in life to be happy? Find these things and plan your life around them. Anything more is extra. Your core needs will define your life. Seek them daily.  4) Think about what you want out of life. How often do you really think about what you want? Just you, with no outside influences... It is time you started ignoring people a...