“Raise your words, not voice. It is rain that grows flowers, not thunder.” Rumi
It takes courage to stand up and speak but it takes more to sit, listen and admit your mistake!
Emotions are at the heart of every interaction. Little acts can change the end of every story.
Logic makes people think and emotions make them act. If you want to influence someone, talk to them with both~!
In a healthy professional or personal environment, people place a high value on keeping the relationship therefore they are willing to communicate; listen, and understand each other to work things out in a calm and loving way.
But in toxic environment!
"Most people don't listen with the intent to understand they listen with the intent to reply".
In such environment, even if you win you will lose..
Making decision to make our life a drama-free zone is one of the best decisions we can make for our life.
We should only become involved with people who know how to communicate as people who can't communicate thing everything's an argument..
We don't owe anyone anything except the same amount of respect they show us.
We teach people how to treat us and we allow what we tolerate~
Many people need to break up their attachments to toxic environments and people.
Learn to walk away before you have to run~.
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