For the kind of possibilities human beings
hold, life is a brief amount of time. Only for people who do not explore
the full depth and dimension of who they are, for those who are
miserable and depressed, life is long. This is because time is a
relative experience. If you keep yourself vibrant, exuberant, and
joyful, it is a very brief life. There is no point in dwelling on
yesterday, as long as you did the best you could do. The important thing
is that what you thought was the best you could do yesterday should not
be good enough to you anymore today. What you are doing today should be
much better. That means you are growing.
If you act to the best of your ability and intelligence, every day will be an explosion of possibilities.
If you act to the best of your ability and
intelligence, every day will be an explosion of possibilities. If you
are driving fast, there is no time to look back. Only those who are
living in a parked car keep looking in the rearview mirror, because they
are not going anywhere. There is no point in doing postmortem on
yesterday. Crafting tomorrow is what is important. To create an exciting
future, you need to be at your best. Growth means to make yourself the
way you want to be. And how you want to be may change as you mature.
Determine what the highest levels for you are in terms of body, mind,
and emotions. That is what you should go for.
You do not have to be better than someone
else, but you should not be anything less than what you can be. If you
think your life is worthwhile, you must be at your best – anything less
than that is wasted life. If you live exuberantly, life is fantastic. If
you are half alive, everything is miserable. In a way, it is a
preparation for hell. If you make yourself wonderful, wherever the hell
you are, you will be fine. Otherwise, you may be in heaven but turn it
into hell. If you want to create a future, it is important that you use
your past as a stepping stone, not as a load. The more miserable your
past was, the wiser and more mature you should become, sooner than
others. When things happen to us, either we can become wise or wounded.
This is the choice we have. Do not sit in a corner, hoping nothing bad
will happen to you – life does not work that way. Whatever happens in
your life, you can turn it into a fortune.
When we began establishing the Isha Yoga
Center, it created a stir in town. People started gathering around us,
and a few influential families did not like it. They met and came up
with the plan to come here with a few hundred people and demolish the
Yoga Center. But there was a wise old man who said, “You don’t know whom
you are dealing with. If you throw stones at him, he will build
something out of it. Don’t make that mistake.” What life throws at you,
what kind of situations come your way is not always in your hands. But
what you make out of it is always yours.
Take charge of this in your life – no
matter what someone says, what life does to you, what the world does to
you, turn it into wellbeing. For this, you need balance, and you need to
function at your highest level. Indiscriminately, whoever it is,
whatever you do – always give your best. Learn to look at everyone and
everything with the same intensity and the same involvement. Selective
involvement means being half alive. To mature into a full-fledged human
being, always strive to function at the highest possible level of your
capability, in every little thing you do.
Unfortunately, ninety percent of humanity
is functioning well below their potential – to some extent because
someone else said or did something, or even just because they are afraid
someone else may think something. That means you are getting into other
people’s mind – what a filthy place to be. Whatever anyone else thinks,
says, or does, whatever comes your way, learn to turn it into your
wellbeing. If someone throws poison at you, you must know how to use it
for your wellbeing. Poisons have been turned into medicines, because
people paid attention and realized the source of the problem is also a
solution.
There is a saying in Kannada that if
someone did something wrong, and other people talk about it, the
negative effect of it will be greater for the people who talk about it
than for the one who committed the act. Let them carry your burden. If
someone abuses you, only their mouth gets dirty. That is not your
problem. What someone else says, does, or thinks should not affect you.
If you are giving your best, all the time, you will be able to look
through whatever they say. What is significant, you can take as a
suggestion. The rest, you can drop.
If you are giving less than your best and
someone says something about you, you will get confused as to who you
are. This does not mean you should establish your way of being once and
for all. Growth is a constant process. It is about building yourself up
to the highest possible level. Most people are volatile, in the sense,
one moment, they are wonderful – the next moment, they are nasty.
Instead, determine what the highest level for you is at this time and
strive to get there. Just bring this into your life – in everything,
give nothing less than the best.
Sadguru --
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