Trying to pick a woman to marry?

 Do you trust this woman with your life? 

If you can’t tell her your secrets and trust that no matter what happens she'll stand by you, then she's not the one

Once you understand that marriage is forever, and there's no going back, you'll be more intentional about your selection

Don't marry for looks, they fade 

Don't marry for how you feel today,  feelings change 

Don't marry for her body, pregnancy changes that too

Don't marry for her potential, potential is nothing. Judge only from her daily habits.

Marry for her values

Marry for her judgment 

Marry for her humor 

Marry for her kindness

Marry for her femininity 

Marry for her work ethic 

Marry for her nurturing spirit

Marry for her habits 

Marry for her ability to submit to you

Marry for her teachability

Marry for her ability to be prudent

Marry for her ability to support your goals

Marry for her ability to listen to you 

Marry for her wisdom

Marry for her mental toughness 

Marry for her positivity

For men, these are the things that make it easy to love her till you're 90

-This is the woman who will raise your kids.

- This is the woman your daughters will be like.

- This is the woman who will make your house into a home.

Don't marry her because you think you can change her. No one changes in marriage,  they only become more of who they are.

Most of all, work hard to improve yourself because you can only marry a high-quality woman if you're a high-quality man.

When you find a good woman, love her and she'll respect you.

When you find a good woman, be ready to provide and protect her. So she can be present in raising your kids.

When you find a good woman,  take your time to assess her. Don't be in a hurry, make sure she's not faking it.

Take a step back to pray about it. Clear your head, give her some space. 

And when the only response you get after praying about her is peace, then that's your wife.