These 11 countries are banning certain baby names because parents can't be trusted

 Well you can no longer name your kid "Linda" in Saudi Arabia. So there's that.

"Linda" is one of 50 names now banned in the country as of this month, according to Gulf News.

Other banned names include: Alice, Lauren, Malika (queen) and Jibreel (Gabriel). What do these names have in common?

The interior ministry finds them offensive in one of three ways:

Those that offend perceived religious sensibilities, those that are affiliated to royalty and those that are of non-Arabic or non-Islamic origin.

So long, Sandy of Saudi Arabia. It's been nice knowing you. Here's the full list of Saudi Arabia's banned names. And here are 10 more countries that find it necessary to call the shots when it comes to that fateful day:

1. New Zealand

The official list of rejected names in New Zealand includes "4Real," "Mafia No Fear" and "Anal." Other gems — like "." and "*" — didn't even bother with the alphabet. All of the names on the list were at some point proposed by parents, soon to be rejected by the government, which deemed the names too offensive.

2. Germany

In Germany, you must be able to tell the gender of the child by the first name. "Matti," for instance, was rejected. The name also must not be considered to have a negative impact on the child's well being. An office of vital statistics, called the Standesamt, decides whether or not a name is OK. They have nixed "Stompie," and "Woodstock" as well as last names like "Kohl." "Osama bin Laden"? Not so much.

3. Portugal

Portugal has an 80-page document outlining which names are acceptable and which aren't. For a long time, only biblical or Christian names were allowed. "Nirvana," "Olaf," and "Kennedy" didn't make the cut.

4. Denmark

Denmark has a list of 7,000 pre-approved names. "Anus," "Monkey," and "Pluto" are not on it.

5. Norway

Norway's strict naming law dates from the 1800s, and is intended to protect children from names that sound or look strange, according to the AP. Acceptable names include "Dits," "Fridvall," "Glisur," "Glasius," "Wrold," "Anond," "Raabi," and "Skagj." "Gesher," not so much. A woman actually wound up in jail for two days because she refused to change her child's name from "Gesher" to something else. "Gesher," which is Hebrew for "bridge," came to her in a dream, she said.

6. Sweden

Sweden has thwarted attempts by its citizens to name their kids "Superman," "Metallica," and the roll-off-your-tongue "Brfxxccxxmnpcccclllmmnprxvclmnckssqlbb11116."

7. Morocco

In Morocco, there is a list of approved names that appropriately reflect "Moroccan identity." You can name a baby "Sara" (Arabic version) but not "Sarah," (Hebrew version).

8. Japan

In Japan, only official kanji may be used in babies' given names. The purpose is to make sure all names can be easily read and written by the Japanese. The Japanese also restrict names that might be deemed inappropriate. So there is no more "Akuma," meaning "devil," in case you were wondering.

9. Malaysia

Malaysia tightened up its naming law in 2006 in order to prevent such atrocities as "Hitler," "smelly dog," and "007." Malays can't name their kids "Woti," which means "sexual intercourse," nor can they name their kids after animals, insects, fruits, vegetables, or colors.

10. Iceland

In Iceland, baby names are supposed to fit Icelandic grammar and pronunciation rules — choices like Carolina and Christa are not allowed because the letter "c" is not part of Iceland's alphabet. In January 2013, a 15-year-old girl named "Blaer" won the right to keep her name, which she had been told by authorities wasn't feminine enough.

This article, by Emily Lodish, originally appeared at GlobalPost.

NEWSLETTER

If you're a man and you're unhappy, you need to read this

 

Many men are depressed and feel useless, but for the need to retain their perceived Masculinity,  they keep these problems to themselves, because really, who can help? The truth is, not many people care about your problems.  Not many people can give you the answers that suit you.

I believe therapy doesn't work for men, because talking things out doesn't really solve much. Not for men at least. Men solve their problems through action. This is how it is, and it will always be.

This is why men lift weights or start businesses after an ended relationship. Men, if you feel broken or depressed, build something. Just talking about your problems makes you repulsive to people because truly,  everyone has problems.

Do you think people are willing to hear your new problems every week?

Women can do this,  but not you. On the rare occasions you do, share them when you're actively working to solve them. This way, people will respect you more.

And you don't become a burden to the next man

Women, this is what you should look for in a man

 Women, this is what you should look for in a man

Trust is important. 

Does he lie?

See how he treats his sisters and mum. This is how you’ll be treated later on.

Does he stick to his word? 

If he doesn’t do what he says he will do, it says a lot about his integrity and loyalty.

Does he pray?

A man who doesn’t pray cannot lead properly. He needs to hear from God to be able to lead you right

Does he have a purpose?

He might not be so rich right now, but if he has a purpose that you can see him diligently pursuing, then support him.

If he’s all talk, but no action, you should rethink.

Is he responsible?

How well does he take care of his family, business, health, pet, or even his room.

His responsibility is what determines if he’ll be able to provide for you and your kids in the future.

Is he masculine?

Does he inspire you to submit? Do you feel safe around him? 

A masculine man is to a feminine woman what a car is to a battery.

This polarity is what brings harmony to relationships

Are you teachable?

One thing men hate is being with a woman who is never ready to listen, learn or take correction.

As smart as you are, you must understand that you won’t always be right

Be his peace, and he’ll make you happy.

It’s not about finding the right man, it’s about being the right woman for the right man.

When dating outside marriage, maintain boundaries, because the more people you open your body to, the less value you have.

Keep yourself pure for the man you’ll marry. 

Men will come, for different reasons 

- Some for casual relationships

- Some with bogus claims that something told them you’re their wife

This is where you need God the most.

Bring these things to him and he’ll guide you.

Trying to pick a woman to marry?

 Do you trust this woman with your life? 

If you can’t tell her your secrets and trust that no matter what happens she'll stand by you, then she's not the one

Once you understand that marriage is forever, and there's no going back, you'll be more intentional about your selection

Don't marry for looks, they fade 

Don't marry for how you feel today,  feelings change 

Don't marry for her body, pregnancy changes that too

Don't marry for her potential, potential is nothing. Judge only from her daily habits.

Marry for her values

Marry for her judgment 

Marry for her humor 

Marry for her kindness

Marry for her femininity 

Marry for her work ethic 

Marry for her nurturing spirit

Marry for her habits 

Marry for her ability to submit to you

Marry for her teachability

Marry for her ability to be prudent

Marry for her ability to support your goals

Marry for her ability to listen to you 

Marry for her wisdom

Marry for her mental toughness 

Marry for her positivity

For men, these are the things that make it easy to love her till you're 90

-This is the woman who will raise your kids.

- This is the woman your daughters will be like.

- This is the woman who will make your house into a home.

Don't marry her because you think you can change her. No one changes in marriage,  they only become more of who they are.

Most of all, work hard to improve yourself because you can only marry a high-quality woman if you're a high-quality man.

When you find a good woman, love her and she'll respect you.

When you find a good woman, be ready to provide and protect her. So she can be present in raising your kids.

When you find a good woman,  take your time to assess her. Don't be in a hurry, make sure she's not faking it.

Take a step back to pray about it. Clear your head, give her some space. 

And when the only response you get after praying about her is peace, then that's your wife.

10 Cliché Advice for teenagers

 1. Make mistakes but learn from them.

2. Listen to music, dance and live life to the fullest. But don't go overboard

3. Learn a musical instrument or learn to write or learn to code.

4. Have a role model. See the mistakes they made in their youth and avoid them.

5. Seek God and his wisdom everyday. This is how you avoid the traps people fall into as teenagers.

6. Your parents may be annoying. It may look like they don't want you to have any fun.

But it's wise to listen to them despite your raging hormones.

7. Understand the reason behind the values your parents and role models have.

This way, following them becomes easy

8. Seek help when you make mistakes.

Because these mistakes can linger for years.

The earlier you correct them, the better

9. Do as much sports as you can. 

Exercise as much as you can

This time is for living and learning.

10. Don't be in a hurry to become an adult.

Your have time and energy. Enjoy it.

"18 Harsh Truths That Will Make You a Strong Person"

Life is harsh.

It hurts to say that.

But it’s true life is not a picnic.

Accepting these difficult truths will start you on the right path:

1. There is no perfect moment.

Holding yourself to unrealistic standards creates frustration.

Just do it now.

2. We can’t control the past.

Wasting time to worry about it is lost time.

3. Our words have the power to hurt.

Cruel remarks wound others for life.

Use your words to inspire and to liberate instead.

4. Failure quickly gets to our hearts, but success goes to our heads.

Our character is revealed at our highs and lows.

Be humble at the top.

Be faithful in the valleys.

5. Our assumptions about what happiness should be are what makes us unhappy.

Let go of your expectations about what would make you happy and treasure your life for what it is.

6. Our devices often get in the way of our social interaction.

Meet people.

Don’t hide behind your gadgets.

Listen to others’ stories face to face.

7. We judge ourselves by our ideas.

    And others by their actions.

Be a person who others want to meet and be around.

8. Sadly, we don’t get what we give. 

Don’t expect people to always give back.

Not everyone has as giving a heart as you.

9. No one owes you anything.

Stop blaming others. 

Take your power back.

Own your journey.

10. We all will die.

No one will live forever.

Start living a purposeful life and try to mend broken relationships, because you never know when life will end.

11. To experience the benefits of something in life, we have to accept the cost.

Rewards and risks go hand in hand. 

Ask yourself, “What am I willing to give up to achieve what I want?”

12. You are responsible for the problems you encounter, regardless of who caused them.

Instead of worrying about who caused them, think about how you can get yourself out of the situation.

13. The worst addiction in the world is comfort.

Take the road less traveled — one which is sometimes filled with barriers, detours, bumps and undiscovered territory.

14. Justice is a human invention.

In reality, it is unachievable, and many destroy lives in demanding it.

15. Hating oneself starts with breaking one’s promises.

Once done, it feels terrible.

When it becomes a habit, you hate yourself more.

16. Sometimes we have to ditch toxic friends from our lives and surroundings.

17. Good things usually don’t come easily.

And if you think about it, great accomplishments take time, too.

Don’t expect rewards instantly.

18. Not everyone will support your dream.

Haters, doubters, and pessimists will sabotage every move you make.

To overcome this, follow your gut and forget them.

I wish I could tell you that living your dream life is a piece of cake.

Not so, but go for it anyway.

Every day you have to find your courage, no matter how harsh life gets.

You live your life on auto pilot because you don't know what to do with your life. 

 change your 

- habits, 

- daily routine, 

- mindset, 

- become strong and 

- disciplined. 

101 Powerful Ways to Stop Procrastination

1. Don’t put too much on your plate!

2. Break it down!

3. Leave dessert for last.

4. Nourish your body.

5. Keep your life healthy and happy.

6. Bulletproof your mind & body

7. Drink some Bulletproof Coffee while you’re at it

8. Exercise your brain…with breathing

9. Tell your friends!

10. Join A Community.

11. Sleep correctly with Sleepy Time

12. Make sure your circadian rhythm is in check.

13. Try a time management technique

14. Change your lighting

15. Write it down

16. Set aside some time each day

17. Stop messing around

18. GO! Just Start!

19. Understand why.

20. Change your mood

21. Stop complaining

22. Reach out and ask for help

23. Make a Vision map

24. Understand you’re not perfect

25. Get a mantra or an affirmation

26. Learn to say NO! 27. Adopt the Two-Minute Rule. (if something takes you less than two minutes, then you do it immediately) 28. A little friendly competition 29. Stop watching TV 30. Sticky Notes for bad habits

31. Find your groove! 32. Stop multitasking 33. Don’t work so hard 34. You don’t have to finish everything! 35. Make it a game 36. Kick negative thinking to the curb 37. Realize what you will lose by procrastinating 38. Think about your future 39. Get in character 40. If there are no big consequences to skipping a task, then move on to something else on your to-do list

41. Align yourself

42. Kick yourself in the ass

43. Make your own blacklist

44. Use the Passion Planner

45. Believe in yourself

46. Take power naps

47. Disconnect during your important tasks

48. Treat yourself. You need to be rewarded for all of your hard work.

49. Overestimate!

50. Emergencies happen!

51. Have a (small) cup of coffee

52. Shhh…Find a quiet place

53. Book some mini vacation time.

54. Get Up!

55. Have a quick laugh

56. Note your triggers

57. Don’t fight your thoughts

58. Get a successful person crush

59. Capture some enthusiasm

60. Drink a glass of water

61. Whether you think you can, or you think you can’t – you’re right.

62. Face your fears

63. Re-evaluate

64. Harness the power of self-talk

65. The power is at the starting line

66. Create routines and habits

67. Mix it up

68. Meditate with the Headspace App

69. Strict Workflow

70.Set milestone

71. The book “Getting things done: The Art of Stress-Free Productivity” by David Allen

72. Respect your time

73. Get into the flow

74. Remove online temptations

75. Set a barrier to entry

76. Turn off alerts

77. Avoid visual distractions

78. Daydream about success

79. Find productive ways to procrastinate

80. Set exciting goals

81. Live in proactive mode

82. Make verbal commitments

83.  Focus on five goals and eliminate the rest

84. Batch similar tasks

85. Start every task with a verb.

86. Set a deadline for each task

87. Prioritize

88. Plan for Monday on Friday

89. Outsource

90. Identify clear targets

91. Break tasks into smaller chunks

92. Schedule work time in blocks

93. Give yourself less time than needed

94. Set timer for tasks

95. Create to-do lists

96. Cross things off your to-do list

97. Ignore daily news

98. Learn while commuting

99. Visualize your goals as already accomplished

100. Focus on the outcome

101. Gain you right mindset

• Did you know….

Just by reading 1-2 hours daily you can be in the top 1% of your society?

• Do you want to boost your professional career?

• Do you want to make rational decisions?

So, don’t waste your time and energy.

9 Psychology Lessons You’re NOT Taught In School

 The Brain works in mysterious ways,

but a lot of these mysterious have been deboned by Psychology and Science.

𝟏. 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐍𝐨𝐜𝐞𝐛𝐨 𝐄𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐜𝐭 If we truly believe that we are going to experience something, our minds and bodies will follow so. This shows the power of how important it is to master your mind.

𝟐. 𝐁𝐚𝐚𝐝𝐞𝐫-𝐌𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐡𝐨𝐟 𝐏𝐡𝐞𝐧𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐨𝐧 (𝐁𝐌𝐏) Have you ever learned a new word and you started to see that word everywhere? This might be the BMP in action.

Our brains are built with a cognitive bias towards things that we recently learned. This new information receives priority over information that we’ve known for years. When you recognize it, your brain makes sure that you see it.

𝟑. 𝐀𝐧𝐜𝐡𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 When we first learn information, we tend to reflect back on that initial information, once we are faced with a similar situation.

𝟒. 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝟖𝟎/𝟐𝟎 𝐏𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐜𝐢𝐩𝐥𝐞 Also, known as Pareto Principle, is the easiest way to run pop your productivity. This principle states that 80% of the effects come from 20% of the causes.

80% of the money that a business makes, will likely come from 20% of the most loyal, high-paying customers. 80% of the knowledge you retain, comes from only 20% of your study techniques.

𝟓. 𝐋𝐚𝐰 𝐨𝐟 𝐀𝐭𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 It says that we can manifest whatever we focus our thoughts on. If you focus your thoughts on making money, money-making opportunities will present themselves to you.

Your brain is overloaded with billions of things every day, and it has to choose what is important; So what it does is that it offloads the process of finding things to focus on.

𝟔. 𝐒𝐢𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐲-𝐀𝐭𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐏𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐜𝐢𝐩𝐥𝐞 (𝐒𝐀𝐏) SAP says it starts with us. We tend to be attracted to things that are similar to us. We might feel comfortable around people who look like us.

If we become a person that thinks positive things and hold a positive attitude, we will recognize and we’ll be drawn to other positive people and positive opportunities.

𝟕. 𝐒𝐩𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐞𝐨𝐮𝐬 𝐓𝐫𝐚𝐢𝐭 𝐓𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐬𝐟𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞 The people listening to us will start associating those traits with us.

If you tell a friend how your co-worker’s amazingly hardworking, your friend will start seeing you with that trait.

So, It’s a good excuse to quit gossiping.

𝟖. 𝐂𝐨𝐠𝐧𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐃𝐢𝐬𝐬𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞 We all grow with an initial perspective. We hold on to these beliefs and attract people who enforce them. But what if we face a contradictory idea?

A situation in which we are faced with 2 perspectives opposing each other. Our brains start feeling very uncomfortable and it’s the kind of pain our brains want to avoid. Instead, it seeks something which brings pleasure. So, you’ll change either your belief or your behavior.

𝟗. 𝐌𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐄𝐱𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐮𝐫𝐞 It’s A psychological theory that explains why humans are more comfortable with things they are familiar with.

When you’re introduced to or you heard about something new, you might distance yourself. But once that period of exposure is over, you are more comfortable with the idea.

15 Powerful Thought of the book “The Art of Thinking Clearly”

 

The book was originally written as weekly columns in leading newspapers in Germany, the Netherlands and Switzerland, and later in two German books.

The book has been in the top ten of Germany's Bestseller list for 80 weeks in a row and has been translated in many languages.

1. Never underestimate the hard work and lower probability of success, just because we are shown more successful people than many more actual failures.

It does not mean, in any way, that you should not dream big. It just says that dont get overawed by the number of success stories you read and assume that success would be easy. No one prints the failure stories.

2. Confirmation bias is the mother of all misconceptions. It is a tendency to interpret new information so that it becomes compatible with our existing theories.

Warren Buffet has seen people losing money with this because they ignore facts which contradict the theory in the mind of the investor. Dis-confirming evidence must be seeked out to beat this theory.

3. If you ever find yourself in a tight unanimous group, you must speak your mind, even if your team does not like it, and even if it means risking expulsion from the warm nest.

And if you lead a group, appoint someone as devil's advocate. He or she will not be the most popular member of the team, but definitely the most important.

4. Induction Send an email to 10,000 people with stock market prediction by dividing them into 2 groups - telling reverse prediction to each group. Prediction for one of the groups will come true.

Send a new prediction to the 5,000 whom you predicted correctly earlier - again after dividing them into 2 groups...carry on like this, and the last 100 would consider you as a genius. People get inducted into a decision based on history without thinking logically.

5. Loss Aversion The fear of losing something motivates people more than the prospect of gaining something of equal value.

6. Compounding When it comes to compounding, dont trust your intuition - you have no idea how powerful it is.

7. It is not what you say, but how you say, that's important. 99% Fat Free product seems more healthy than a product with 1% Fat.

8. If you are not a part of the solution, you are definitely a part of the problem. There is no 3rd category of passive onlookers.

9. Follow your passion even if you have to do away with part of your income for that

10. Whenever you are dealing with averages, be careful of the distribution behind it. A Bill Gates monthly income in a group of 50 ordinary citizens can give an extremely misleading average.

11. Money does not always motivate. It works as a motivation only in companies where employees work for only money.

12. Money won incidentally, as against earned through hard work, is more likely to be spent irrationally - though it sounds illogical because the money is the same. This can be prevented if you have a clear financial plan with you.

13. Self Control drains your energy Therefore you need a lot of energy if you want to exercise self control and excel in any specific area of life.

14. Presence of something is more noticeable and valued than its absence. As an example, presence of disease is much more noticeable than its absence. Even, getting off a plane and not noticing that it did not crash is so common.

15. It is appetizing, easy to digest - and highly destructive in the long run. Try and avoid it as much as you can.

NEWS IS TO MIND WHAT SUGAR IS TO BODY

10 THINGS CONFIDENT PEOPLE WONT DO

Embracing the behaviors of confident people is a great way to increase your odds for success, which , in turn, will lead to more confidence. 

The science is clear; now you just have to decide to act on it...... 

THEY DON'T MAKE EXCUSES

if there's one trait confident people have in spades, its self-efficacy- the belief that they can make things happen. It's about having an internal locus of control rather than an external one.

Thats why you won't hear confident people blaming traffic for making them late or an unfair boss for their failure to get a promotion. Confident people don't make excuses, because they believe they are in control of their own lives.

THEY DON'T QUIT

confident people don't give up the first time something goes wrong. They see both problems and failures as obstacles to overcome rather than impenetrable barriers to success. That doesn't mean, however, that they keep trying the same thing over and over.

One of the first things confident people do when something goes wrong is to figure out why it went wrong and how they can prevent it the next time.

THEY DON'T WAIT FOR PERMISSION TO ACT

Confident people don't need somebody to tell them what to do or when to do it. They don't waste time asking themselves questions like" Can i?" or "SHOULD I"? If they ask themselves anything, it's 

"Why wouldn't I"?

Whether it's running a meeting when the chairperson doesn't show up or going the extra mile to solve a customer's problem, it doesn't even occur to them to wait for somebody else to take care of it. They see what needs to be done and they do it.

THEY DON'T SEEK ATTENTION

people are turned off by those who are desperate for attention. Confident people know that being yourself is much more effective than trying to prove that you are important.

Confident people are masters of attention diffusion. When they are receiving attention for an accomplishment, they quickly shift the focus to all the people who worked hard to help get them there.

THEY DON'T NEED CONSTANT PRAISE

Have you ever been around somebody who constantly needs to hear how great he or she is? Confident people don't do that. It goes back to that internal locus of control.

They don't think that their success is dependent on other people's approval, and they understand that no matter how well they perform, there's always going to be somebody out there offering nothing but criticism.

THEY DON'T PUT THINGS OFF

Why do people procrastinate?

Because they believe in themselves and expect that their actions will lead them closer to their goals, they don't sit around waiting for the right time or the perfect circumstances.

THEY DONT PASS JUDGEMENT

Confident people don't pass judgement on others because they know that everyone has something to offer, and they don't need to take other people down a notch in order to feel good about themselves. Comparing yourself to other people is limiting.

THEY DON'T AVOID CONFLICT

Confident people don't go along to get along, even when that means having uncomfortable conversations or making unpleasant decisions. They know that conflict is part of life and that they can't avoid it without cheating themselves out of the good stuff, too.

THEY DON'T LET A LACK OF RESOURCES GET IN THEIR WAY

Confident people don't get thrown off course just because they don't have the right title, the right staff, or the money to make things happen. Either they find a way to get what they need, or they figure out how to get by without it.

THEY DON'T GET TOO COMFORTABLE

Confident people understand that getting to comfortable is the mortal enemy of achieving their goals. That's because they know that comfort leads to complacency and complacency leads to stagnation.

When they start feeling comfortable they take that as a big red flag and start pushing their boundaries again so that they can continue to grow as both a person and a professional. They understand that a little discomfort is a good thing.

6 Ways to DETOX your Mind

 ASK YOURSELF

Are there any dead relationships in my life that i am holding on to?|

What aspects of my life can i improve by removing things that is not working anymore?

START UNFOLLOWING

Unfollow people who do not make you feel empowered, informed, or inspired.

PRACTICE MEDITATION

During meditation, you focus your attention and eliminate rampant thoughts crowding your mind and causing stress.

This process may result in enhanced emotional, intellectual, physical, and spiritual well-being.

BE SELECTIVE SOCIAL

Being socially selective means intentionally keeping your social circle small.

REMEMBER THE BIG PICTURE

Write down you list of your long-term goals.

Call it your vision for your life. Reference it often. Keep it in your mind as you are cycling through your day-to-day tasks.

It's easy to get caught up in the minutiae of living when your gorget your why.

START WRITING

Sometimes you just need to get out what's on your mind.

Try setting a timer for 30minutes and doing a brain dump of all the things you want to complain about or challenges you are struggling with to let it all go and detox your mind from those nagging worries./

HARSH TRUTHS THAT WILL MAKE YOU A STRONG PERSON

 There is no perfect moment. Holding yourself to unrealistic standards creates frustration. Just do it now.

We can't control the past. Wasting time to worry about it is lost time.

Our words have the power to hurt. Cruel remarks wound others for life. Use your words to inspire and to liberate instead.

Failure quickly gets to our hearts, but success goes to our heads. Our character is revealed at our highs and lows. Be humble at the top. Be faithful in the valleys.

Our assumptions about what happiness should be are what makes us unhappy. Let go of your expectations about what would make you happy and treasure your life for what it is.

Our devices often get in the way of our social interaction. Meet people. Don't hide behind your gadgets. Listen to others' stories face to face.

we judge ourselves by our ideas. And others by their actions. Be a person who others want to meet and be around.

Sadly, we don't get what we give. Don't expect people to always give back. Not everyone has as giving a heart as you.

No one owes you anything. Stop blaming others. Take your power back. Own your journey.

We all will die. no one will live forever. Start living a purposeful life and try to mend broken relationships because you never know when life will end.

To experience the benefits of something in life, we have to accept the cost. Rewards and risk go hand in hand. Ask yourself," What am I willing to give up to achieve what I want?

You are responsible for the problems you encounter, regardless of who caused them. Instead of worrying about who caused them, think about how you can get yourself out of the situation.

The worst addiction in the world is comfort. Take the road less traveled-one which is sometimes filled with barriers, detours, bumps, and undiscovered territory.

Justice is a human invention. In reality. It is unachievable and many destroy lives in demanding it.

Hating oneself starts with breaking one's promise. Once done, it feels terrible. When it becomes a habit, you hate yourself more.

Sometimes we have to ditch toxic friends from our lives and surroundings.

Good things usually don't come easily. and if you think about it, great accomplishments take time, too. Don't expect rewards instantly.

Not everyone will support your dream. Haters, doubters, and pessimists will sabotage every move you make. To overcome this, follow your guts and forget them.

I wish I could tell you that living your dream life is a piece of cake.

Not so, but go for it anyway. Every day has to find your courage, no matter how harsh life gets.

Enjoy...

5 Lesson to learn before realizing Guiltiness

Before the age of 20, you will spend a lot of time with a Lot of Frinds. After 30, you will spend a small amount of time with just a few important friends.

After the age of 20, you will only spend a small amount of time with your family and parents before the end of their or your life.

You will spend a huge amount of your time between the age of 20 and 60 with the people you work with.

At 30 years old the amount of time you spend by yourself increases until the day that you die.

The time you spend with your partner will continue to increase from the day you meet them, until the day that you die.

Points to Memorize - 

 1. A few close friends> many meaningless connections

2. When you are with family, be 100% there, not on social media

3. Good Co-Worker and a healthy work environment > higher pay.

4. Don't Rush love. What's meant to be will come. Have Faith.

5. Learn to love yourself before seeking love from others.