How to deal with REJECTION?

Understand it's part of your life, you can't run from it, people gonna reject you the moment they meet you.

CAUSE (why you feel it) You deriving your self worth from what they think about you, their thinking about you is affecting what you think, and your mind is biased it always works to feel you superior to others.

WHAT to do

 1) Take it as REDIRECTION let go of what they think about you and derive it from your inner self, I am worthy of myself, I don't need others to feel my worth.

2) Stop taking everything personally People don't know what they are doing, they are projecting themselves onto you, everything they do is not about you, they 'DON'T EVEN CARE WHO THE FUCK ARE YOU.'

Question - “What kind of people should I have around me?” 

 Answer,-  “Your circle must have people who inspire you otherwise you don’t have a circle, but a cage.”

29 lessons learn on life and investing along the way

Avoiding $3 coffees won't make you a millionaire

1. Staying with roommates and living like a student for a few years after graduation can

Avoid lifestyle creep and use the savings as fuel for your finances

"Stop asking $3 questions & start asking $30,000 questions"

2. The point of becoming rich is not to live luxuriously It's to live life on your own terms and conditions and chase your dreams "You now have some FU money. This is when you make things happen"

3. When you start being successful you will get hate even from close friends The reason? Your success acts as a mirror for their failures "You rarely get hate from anyone more successful than you"

4. Focus on what you are good at, not what you like Engineering and analytics were not my passions, but they paid pretty well and allowed me to follow other passions in my free time "Don't follow your passion, follow your talent"

5. Skills pay the bills In-demand and high-paying skills pay for your freedom ticket "If you’re good with computers, if you’re good at basic mathematics, if you’re good at writing, if you’re good at speaking, and if you like reading, you’re set for life." 

6. Six months of focused and hard work on yourself is all it takes to transform your life Don't be afraid to say "No" to other social obligations "Disappear for 6 months, do a ton of deep work, and 99% of your problems will also disappear"

7. Focus on how much value you create, not how many hours you work You are not a factory worker You are a mental athlete "Forty-hour workweeks are a relic of the Industrial Age. Knowledge workers function like athletes — train and sprint, then rest and reassess."

 8. Success is not what 99% of society defines it as It's not the luxuries and status It's the freedom over your time and choices "Success is doing what you want to do, when you want, where you want, with whom you want, as much as you want"

 9. From investing to politics, 99% of the news is garbage and noise It aims to make you emotional and occupied Follow a low-information "diet" and you will be fine "If you don't read the newspaper, you're uninformed. If you do read it, you're misinformed."

10. All your dreams can become reality if you: • Set goals • Create daily habits • Are disciplined and consistent "You can change. You can achieve your potential. You can make your dreams a reality."

11. From a Fortune-500 CEO to a street cleaner, everyone has something to teach you Open your eyes and ears Close your mouth Listen and learn "People who are open-minded and curious, learn something from everyone they meet"

 12. Burnout is almost never physical, but mental You either feel not rewarded or mistreated Be willing to change companies or even profession, even for lower pay at first "You’re not burned out, you just don’t get any reward from what you do"

13. Not everyone deserves an explanation or your time to argue As the old saying goes "I can explain it to you, I can't understand it for you" "80% of 'arguments' on Twitter stem from poor reading comprehension"

14. Cut toxic friends and relatives out of your life regardless of the cost You will earn your peace of mind in the long run "Fire people from your life if they’re not in line with your values as a human being"

15. The harder you try, the luckier you get • Acquire more skills • Expand your network • Always look for opportunities Better things will start coming your way "The best advice I ever received was to increase your 'luck surface area'"

16. Discipline and consistency always trump talent and intelligence in the long run Show up every day Those small daily steps will compound quickly "Consistency wins"

 17. When you try to appeal to everyone, you appeal to no one Find your target audience and identify their • Needs • Goals • Fears Then create your content around these "Understand which audience you're optimizing around"

18. Don't overcomplicate things Try to find simple solutions to complex problems Use the 80/20 rule Focus on the 20% of things that bring 80% of the results "Simplify where others complicate"

19. Avoid credit card debt and high-interest loans Never use margin or leverage for investing You will regret it later on "Borrowing money is stealing from your future self. Don't be a greedy thief."

20. Don't get too caught up in minor details when you make investments with a 10-year horizon If you hold high-growth and high-quality companies, they won't matter in the end "If you expect a 10 bagger, why worry about a 5% difference in buying price"

 21. The market does not care about your

 • School 

• Profession

• Religion

 It only cares about your 

 • Skills

 • Value

 • Adaptability

 "Degrees don’t define you."

22. You can't control the stock market movements or when your boss decides to give you a raise You can control your investing decisions and giving yourself a raise "Free yourself from things you cannot control and focus all your energy on things you can control"

 23. Nothing good will ever happen inside your comfort zone Success and excellence await outside of it "Greatness cannot be achieved by staying comfortable. Excellence is a result of continuously stretching the boundaries of your abilities. Embrace discomfort."

24. Volatility is the price you pay for owning high-quality stocks Don't get scared out of them after a sudden downturn "Confidence in owning a volatile stock comes from developing your own conviction & doing your own research on that volatile stock"

 25. When dealing with non-experts • Avoid jargon trying to seem smart • Use simple terms to seem approachable "Making something seem sound simple or understandable to the layman, is a great deal harder than using complex terms to appear knowledgable"

26. When your favorite stocks drop by a lot, don't panic That's the best time to buy them if the fundamentals haven't changed When the stocks are on sale "I think I'm cut from a different cloth. It makes me smile when my favorite companies get washed out"

27. Don't try to invest in every sector just because others are doing it You don't need to hold stocks in all the hot sectors Focus on what you know and understand "You are not an index fund. You don't have to own stocks from every sector"

28. Prioritize quality and value over quantity and time A 3-hour focused work is more than enough Don't waste 8 hours pretending to be productive with low-priority and unimportant tasks "Focus on being productive instead of busy"

29. Don't count the days for your next trip or the coming weekend Instead, make every day count "Build a life you don’t need a vacation from"

Enjoy... ..

10 "Billionaire Secrets" that will make you Super-Intelligent.

1. Simple > Complex Focus on creating things that are easy to use and understand by everyone. Be it words, products, services, tweets, ideas or concepts.

2. Think in First Principles Boil down things to their most fundamental components. For example, What makes a great book? Chapters > Paragraphs > Sentences > Words Focus on the 'Right Words'.

3. Stick within your "Circle of Competence" What you know <<< What you think you know Focus only on 'what you know' and build on that.

4. Avoid Stupidity Instead of consistently trying to fix problems, avoid them. If you want to remain slim, avoid foods that make you fat. It's that simple.

5. Be Indifferent to Results You can only control your actions not the results. Cry, fret, stress and go crazy. It's still impossible. Work rationally and move on.

6. Ignore First Impressions You're run by emotions. And hundreds of your subconscious assumptions. High price = High quality Beauty = Healthy Good speaker = Good person Pause. Reflect. Understand things deeply before making decisions

7. Don't Follow Herds Understand what you know, and what you don't know. If you act average, you're going to be average. Reflect and understand what works for you. Develop your skills. You're built different.

8. Learn to Focus Attention Having a long attention span is a gift. More you can focus, more quickly you can solve problems. Keep away distractions. And focus.

9. See reality as it is Your knowledge and morality has nothing to do with reality. Fat is fat. Short is short. Ugly is ugly. Think in terms of facts to acquire 'True Knowledge.'

10. There's no 'Magic Pill' No pills, no maps, no advise, no motivation, books or fake gurus can give it to you. If you want it bad enough, work consistently. And you'll get it.

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7-Steps To Become A Better Decision Maker

1. Learn to say “No” One of the best decisions you’ll ever make in life is to start saying “no” more often. People often feel entitled to say yes to tedious demands that they don’t really want to do... Truth is, life is too short to do things you don’t like. Just say “No”!

2. Identify your bad habits Everyone has bad habits, it’s part of being human. The first step to fixing it is first acknowledging it exists. Once you know what you’re up against, then you can find out what’s triggering it. Fix your bad habit at the root of the problem.

3. Always have a plan Having a plan of action is a crucial part to making successful decisions. Without a plan of action, you have no direction. You’re like a chicken running with his head cut-off. Collect info & create a flexible plan. Failing to plan is planning to fail

4. Keep an open mind & remain emotionally detached An open-mind is important for decision making because you need to examine every possibility. Your biggest downfall will come when you think you know everything. Having an open-mind will ensure you never overlook anything.

Remaining emotionally detached is also important. Why? Because emotions effect your decisions making process. Staying detached will allow you to think clearly & make an objective based decision that will bring the best outcome.

5. Be confident in yourself Making good & fast decisions stems from being confident in yourself & your abilities. The only way to be confident in yourself & your abilities is to put the time in & perfect your craft. Experience is the best teacher.

6. Understand that there’s not always a “right choice” Sometimes as leaders/decision makers we’re put in tough positions. Our choices are not always black & white. Sometimes we’re given a selection of shitty choices that all lead to terrible outcomes.

In this case, there’s no “right choice”. You just have to use your knowledge & discretion to figure out which option will cause the least damage. It can be a tough decision, but these are the ones that help you grow the most.

7. Ask for advice Like I said before, good & quick decisions makers stem from confidence. Sometimes the best way to master your craft is to seek guidance from someone who is in a higher level than you. They’ve gone through tougher experiences & have more refined skills.

It is the perfect opportunity to learn from their mistakes so you never have to make them yourself. Learning from others is one of the fastest ways to progress.

7 habits that changed my life in less than a year

1/ Respect your sleep Sleep is like a recharge for humans. The moment you start respecting AT LEAST 7h of sleep, your daily life improves dramatically. Your mood, your energy, your mentality, everything is influenced by your sleep.

2/ Drink water Start drinking water as soon as you wake up. You will immediately feel how your body feels better. Whenever you feel tired or feel like snacking, drink water. Most of the time you are just dehydrated.

3/ Practice gratefulness daily Every day, as soon as you wake up, write down 5 things you are grateful for. If you want, do it also before going to sleep. You are setting yourself up to be happier just by spending a few minutes a day.

4/ Make your bed It's a very simple habit but one that has a HUGE influence throughout the day. If you start the day winning, even if it's something as small as making your bed, it will turn into bigger wins. Win the morning, win the day.

5/ Train your muscles Lifting heavy weights. Practice a sport. Walk. It doesn't matter what you do, as long as you do it consistently. The more you do it, the more it will help you in the future. Get fitter, be healthier.

 6/ Review your thoughts I never knew I needed this habit, and yet it is perhaps the most important one Every once in a while, I do it once a week, give yourself 10 min Review what you think about most of the time. Review what you consume on a daily basis That's how you grow

7/ Practice kindness Some people think it's just one action, it's truly a habit. Treat people with respect. Have manners. Set your boundaries. It costs $0 to be kind. Practice it daily. 

These 7 habits really changed my lifestyle and mindset in less than a year.

 

There are basically three ways to destroy someone's image.

1. Attack their competence: Show the audience that your subject doesn't know what they are talking about. Show them your subject's incompetence by pointing out incoherences in their speech. By attacking competence, you point out the lack of legitimacy.

2. Attack their Character: Show the public the antipathic part your subject's character. Highlight their arrogance. Highlight their lack of ethics. Show the audience that what your subject is doing doesn't come from passion, but, from greed.

3. Hit under the Belt:

 Show the audience parts of the intimate life of your subject. Everyone has dirt, everyone has had embarassing moments in their private life. Make that public.

6 Reasons why you feel Lost

 1) You were raised in an unhealthy environment.

Whether you want to admit it or not, the people who raised you molded you.

Their values and their beliefs were pushed on to you. 

You had no choice as a child, but now you do.

You choose your environment and you choose your life. 

2) You have developed low self esteem.

Low self esteem is a bad habit you have built over time.

You think you are inadequate because that's what you have been told/what you think.

Take charge of your life by knowing you are capable, you have potential and you are powerful. 

3) You are deeply influenced by the media.

The media influencing everything about your life.

They make you want to be someone you are not. They make you chase lies.

It is important to take a step back, realize who you are and who you want to be.

Start becoming that person. 

4) You are surrounded by enablers.

If your friends/family aren't helping you move forward, they are helping you move backwards.

Your network will dictate your future. Your habits/ decisions are greatly influenced by your circle.

Choose wisely, choose often, choose greatness.

5) You let life distract you.

How much time do you waste watching tv? Or scrolling aimlessly through the internet?

Are your hobbies pushing you forward in life or a distraction?

Make a change.

A focused mind and a determined soul is the most powerful person in the world. 

6) You make poor choices.

You are where you are today because of choices.

Make bad choices get bad results.

Make good choices get good results.

Quit complicating life.

Build better habits by making better choices. Become a better person by choosing to be one. 

Recap:

1) Raised in unhealthy environment.

2) Low self esteem.

3) Influenced by the media.

4) Poor friends choices.

5) Life distracts you.

6) Poor choices.

9 steps to find yourself

1) Prioritize alone time.

lone time is very powerful and the first step towards finding yourself again.

Solitude separates people from all influences and allows them to fully be themselves and focus on their own thoughts, needs and wants.

Find some alone time daily. Focus. 

2) Purge your thoughts.

Allowing thoughts to come to life via journalism, drawing or talking to others is the easiest way to rationalize them.

Take time daily to focus on thoughts, so identifying your core needs can become possible.

Focus more on understanding your thoughts. 

3) Focus on your top 5 core needs.

Everyone has wants and desires, but needs are different.

What do you need in life to be happy?

Find these things and plan your life around them.

Anything more is extra. Your core needs will define your life. Seek them daily. 

4) Think about what you want out of life.

How often do you really think about what you want? Just you, with no outside influences...

It is time you started ignoring people and finding yourself and your wants.

Take a deep look inside and focus on those wants. Identify them. 

5) Embrace your authority in life.

Understand you are in control of your life, no one else.

You decide your thoughts, your actions and everything that happens because of them.

Instead of seeking validation from others, seek validation from yourself.

6) Explore and identify your boundaries.

Routines kill more people than anything else.

Routines prevent people from finding their passions.

You need to branch out and try new things to find yourself and your passions.

Challenge yourself, accept change and find the real you. 

7) Remove negative influences from your life.

Negative thoughts and influences eventually become negative choices and actions.

8) Connect with your spirit.

The core of finding yourself is simply being yourself.

To be yourself, you need to first stop thinking/trying to be someone else.

It sounds simple, but in reality it is one of the most difficult things to do.

Focus more on you and less on others

9) Find your wildness.

Wildness is what is true to you.

Your energy is real and will define you to your core.

What excites you? What drives you? What fuels your soul?

Search for these things daily.

Unleash the wild within.

Unleash your soul.